“We are seeing more and more people planning ahead,” stated Mr. Ison of Woodlawn. Seven years in the past, he added, 40 p.c of individuals made preparations forward of time, or “pre-need” quite than “at need” (by which era costs could have elevated); final yr, 60 p.c did.
Antonia Russo pulled it off simply in time.
In the summer time of 2017, her mom was ailing, which lent urgency to the search for a burial plot for her dad and mom. They had lived in Forest Hills, Queens, for most of their grownup lives, however had been born and raised in Bedford-Stuyvesant and remained “proud Brooklynites,” Ms. Russo stated.
So in session along with her dad and mom, she opted for a spot on the Brooklyn aspect of the Evergreens Cemetery, which straddles Brooklyn and Queens. Ms. Russo handed up a plot on a grassy knoll beneath a tree in favor of 1 bordering Bushwick Avenue, as a result of she felt that her mom, who had at all times lived on busy streets, would really feel extra at residence. “I knew this was where she’d be happy,” Ms. Russo stated.
Two weeks after the papers had been signed, her mom handed away.
Cemetery plot location, like all actual property, normally comes down to non-public choice, stated John O. D’Arienzo, a funeral residence director and the president of the Metropolitan Funeral Directors Association. “If you take 100 people, 50 people will want to be by the road, so if it’s cold they can see the stone from the car,” he stated. “The other 50 will want to be in the middle of the section, so everyone doesn’t walk all over the grave.”
He added: “It’s like who wants a blue house, who wants a red house.”
John Crawford, a retired lodge employee who lives on the Upper West Side, frequents demise cafes and attended a current one at the St. Agnes library department on Amsterdam Avenue. Mr. Crawford is leaning towards a inexperienced burial at the Town Cemetery in Rhinebeck, N.Y., the place a pure burial floor opened in 2014 on land that was as soon as a part of an property.
The spot appeals to him partially due to its value: $1,650, which is $400 greater than it prices to be buried in the standard a part of the identical cemetery, however far lower than what most cemeteries in New York City cost.
Mr. Crawford additionally admires the stunning forested grounds.
“I may not have a country home,” he stated. “But at least I could get buried out there in the country.”